death to capslock

I think your comment pretty much sums up why I've never really cared much for R/Hr. They argue too much. And it's not in a cute Darcy/Elizabeth way, but most often just plain spiteful and pointless. It's ironic that their responses to their attraction for each other is kind of their biggest setback, which is interesting for a few books, but not for the span of the entire series minus one. As least Lavender didn't muck about - she knew what she wanted and went for it, instead of playing stupid games like Hermione and Ginny.