[identity profile] sweettalkeress.livejournal.com posting in [community profile] deathtocapslock
So recently I was reading this (actually really excellent) Pokemon fanfic, which appears to have been an attempt to iron out a rather confusing Pokedex entry. Basically, the fanfic revolves around the idea that a certain species of Pokemon has a custom that all young male members of the community must kill their own mothers as a rite of passage. Anyone who can’t do it is disgraced and treated as vermin for the rest of his life- failure to kill your own mother is considered a sign of despicable cowardice. The more I thought about this fic, the more I realized that there’s a similar parallel in Harry Potter- except that instead of the message being, “If you’re truly a real man and worthy of belonging, you’ll kill your own family on instruction,” it’s “If you’re truly brave, a true Gryffindor, you’ll kill yourself on instruction.”
 
In Harry Potter we see characters committing ritual suicide on just about any pretext. We see people kill themselves to protect their family (Lily and James), to escape a bad boss (Regulus), as a strategic ploy (Dumbledore), and even to vanquish their enemies (Harry). Granted, it’s quite possible that these people were better off dead than otherwise, given the circumstances; but still, it does seem to be a pattern.
 
Consider the fate of Lily Potter nee Evans. She dies to protect her son, and in doing so, grants him special love protection. Now, it’s stressed again and again that Lily’s sacrifice was so noble and granted Harry the protection specifically because Voldemort offered her a choice about whether or not to live. And it was noble of her to die for her child- but it also established a pattern that the books’ attitudes towards death reinforce: if you’re in big enough trouble, trouble you can’t escape from any other way, die. Preferably as prettily and dramatically as you can manage.
 
Then there’s Regulus. There was another essay on here in which someone, I think it was Terri Testing, puts it out there that Regulus’s search for Slytherin’s locket was not to have the locket destroyed, but to, effectively, commit ritual suicide rather than serve Voldemort any longer. And for this the heroes emphatically reward him.
 
Now consider Peter Pettigrew. Peter Pettigrew is easily one of the most confusing characters Harry Potter ever gave us. He’s pretty much the only Gryffindor who’s never presented in a remotely positive light (at least not once his identity becomes known). The main reason given for this (both by the author and her fans) is that he’s a coward who betrayed Lily and James rather than be killed by Voldemort (granted, we don’t actually know how much of this is true, since the evidence of his cowardice is rather conflicting and since we never get his side of the story- just the main characters’ assumptions). Tellingly, when Sirius confronts him, he specifically goes out of his ways to say that, had Sirius been in his situation, he would have willingly died rather than betray his friends (the fact that Peter easily would have been better off dead than with Voldemort is largely beside the point here, since it’s only DE’s, and never anyone who could be counted among the “good guys” who serve Voldemort out of fear).
 
And then there’s Phineas Nigellus, who makes the statement about Slytherins choosing to save their own necks. This in and of itself is taken as reason to regard Slytherins as contemptible cravens- they won’t kill themselves for any greater good they can come up with (and you could argue that one of the downsides of “ambition” is that you’re motivated to stay around and wait for things to turn in your favor, rather than the Gryffindorish “bravery” of permanently ending your problems through death).
 
To return to the fanfic I read earlier, like most pieces of media dealing with death cults from the inside, the fanfic mostly just illustrates how things are done- it doesn’t take a stance on the morality of the characters’ actions, and the narrator is genuinely conflicted about killing someone he loves so much- but not enough to stop himself from doing it. What makes Harry Potter’s death cult so freaky is that it really does seem as though suicide is treated, not merely as a cornerstone of wizarding culture but *objectively good and righteous.* Throughout the series we meet literally no suicide bombers among the villains (despite the fact that the DE’s are terrorists, and terrorists in the modern world are notorious for suicide bombing). No, the only suicide bomber we meet (so to speak) is Harry Potter- who’s supposed to be the hero we’re meant to admire!
 
So, yeah.

Date: 2011-12-03 05:17 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] condwiramurs.livejournal.com
I agree with your overall sentiment, but in fairness to Merope we have only Dumbledore's assumption that she raped Riddle. Because she wasn't pretty enough, 'obviously,' to have actually held his interest. Nevermind the time-honored tradition of the lords of the manor expecting to have their way with anyone on their domain without consequence. That she's not attractive might have made her seem the perfect target - he could rape her, or even pretend to her that he really loves her, and then split when she got pregnant/he got bored and nobody would be inclined to believe her tale. Because 'obviously' who would want to sleep with her?

We don't know what actually happened between them, is my point. Anything could have gone down. And assuming that because she was ugly she necessarily raped Riddle is a variant of a very old, very misogynistic trope. It makes me ragey when Dumbledore plays it, and I really hate to see it being taken up without question, especially given the suspicion of Dumbledore generally expressed here. I'm not trying to attack you, sorry if it comes across that way. I'm just trying to point out the problem of assuming Dumbledore's correct in his assumptions.

But word on the flip-flop regarding death as weakness.

Date: 2011-12-03 06:17 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sharaz-jek.livejournal.com
We don't know what actually happened between them, is my point.

You're right, I'd forgotten that. Dumbledore really is good at this half-truth/lies business, isn't he?

Date: 2011-12-03 06:43 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] sunnyskywalker
He sure is. Riddle could have gone to London just to party for a few months, as young heirs have been known to do, and at the last minute thought it would be a lark to take Merope along with him (or let her tag along, anyway). And then she got pregnant, and maybe one of his friends teased him about it or Cicily found out and was upset, and he said, "Damn, you're right, she must have bewitched me!" The end. Or maybe Merope was as awful as Dumbledore guessed, but even if he was right, he still might have stumbled on the right answer via the wrong reasons (ugly => must've been a love potion).

And in Merope's defense, even if she used a love potion, where in the wizarding world would she have gotten the idea that that was wrong? We know that in the 19990s Fred and George are selling them openly and legally, Lockhart can talk about them as romantic Valentine's Day fun in public and no one will contradict him even later in private, Molly Weasley made one and it's still something to giggle about, and Hermione thinks they aren't dark or dangerous - which probably means that none of the books she's read say they're dark or dangerous, and none of the Hogwarts professors have ever said anything against them either until Slughorn comes along in sixth year and says they're dangerous. And even he isn't too emphatic about it, given that none of his generations of previous students - basically all of the adults - seem at all worried about them. So, while we might wish that Merope could reason out what seems to us like a basic ethical principle for herself even if the world around her was saying differently, it doesn't actually show that she's much worse than, say, Romilda Vane. (And what do you suppose Romilda would have done to Harry if she succeeded in dosing him? And would she have gotten in any trouble at all for it?)
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Date: 2011-12-04 12:50 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] sunnyskywalker
Really, I think the strongest argument in favor of his scenario might be that love potions seem to be a common and accepted part of wizarding culture. Maybe using a moderately weak potion (ie not what Ron got) is subtle enough in its effects that after a few months, the average person would believe those were his or her natural feelings so strongly that they would stick with the person after the dosing stopped, assuming that any slight change in feeling is just due to the honeymoon period wearing off.

If that's the case, then maybe it makes sense for Dumbledore to assume that Merope just did what many young witches would, like Romilda and Molly. Molly might even have succeeded, for all we know. Except Merope was ugly and inbred and her family was mean, so it isn't something for schoolgirls to giggle over when she does it, or a sign that she could be a great entrepreneur if she sold it in pretty bottles for others to do the same thing. That doesn't reflect well on wizarding culture.

And it still doesn't mean he's right. No way to know.

Date: 2011-12-04 12:56 am (UTC)
From: [personal profile] oryx_leucoryx
Your scenario needs some modification because both Marvolo and Morphin were arrested the day Ogden visited the Gaunts and were both in Azkaban when Merope left for London. Marvolo (but not Morphin) may have been around when Tom Sr returned, after Jr's conception sometime in late March. Marvolo was sentenced for 6 months, but we don't know exactly when Ogden's inspection of the Gaunt home took place nor do we know hos long Marvolo lasted from his release to his death. BTW Albus says Marvolo may have died because he no longer knew how to feed himself - implying he always depended on his daughter for daily care - but how much of his inability was the result of 6 months of exposure to dementors?
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Date: 2011-12-04 03:57 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] danajsparks.livejournal.com
----Tom might've willingly rolled in the hay with Merope, but he certainly didn't want to marry her!

I think the problem here may be that you can't have sex in the Potterverse without being married first.
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Date: 2011-12-04 05:59 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] danajsparks.livejournal.com
Sorry, what I meant is that Rowling wasn't willing (or perhaps allowed) to write a scenario where Tom Jr. was conceived out of wedlock.

We can think of several scenarios where Tom Sr. might have had sex with Merope without the use of a love potion, but, as you say, it's very unlikely that he would have willingly married her.

However, unlike in the real world, it isn't an option for characters in the Potterverse to have sex outside of marriage. Thus, Rowling started with the premise that Merope and Tom Sr. were married before they had sex as she developed the story, hence Merope's need for a love potion.

Date: 2011-12-04 07:29 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] karentheunicorn.livejournal.com
Mawwwage, Mawwage is what brwings us togefer today.

Apparently in the potter universe for a woman the highest goal is to get married and spew out some rugrats.

Hell, look at McGonagall, I never thought she was ever married and low and behold JKR gives info on the Pottermore site about her being married.

Every character gotta get JKR's matchmaker makeovers. No way Tonks you can't be alone, here HAVE a werewolf to make your life miserable.

You can't be happy without a lovekins to wed and heaven forbid you fall in love and the person doesn't love you back; that calls for a blood letting on a dirty shack floor or death after popping out an evil overloard baby.




Date: 2011-12-04 09:28 pm (UTC)
sunnyskywalker: Young Beru Lars from Attack of the Clones; text "Sunnyskywalker" (spandex jackets)
From: [personal profile] sunnyskywalker
There are so few characters in fiction who are not married, not in a relationship, and perfectly fine that way. HP is just following the crows here, unfortunately. Though some of its examples are particularly nasty.

Date: 2011-12-05 07:50 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sharaz-jek.livejournal.com
Hell, look at McGonagall, I never thought she was ever married and low and behold JKR gives info on the Pottermore site about her being married.

What. The hell.

Where the hell did this come from? Where the hell did it fit in? What the hell was it relevant to? Is this what JKR meant when she dodged the question about whether any teachers were married?

I don't know. On the one hand I'm glad that McGonagal's portrayed as a woman who moved on from the ending of a marriage* and wasn't defined by her man, on the other hand, why did she even need a marriage, and if JKR wants any credit for it, PUT IT IN THE BOOK! And even looked at charitably, it still comes across as yet another example of Rowling attempting to control interpretations of her characters. Unnecessary and stupid, but with a part of it that can be interpreted in a good way that is nonetheless contradicted by the rest of her work - sums up most of the series, doesn't it?

Date: 2011-12-07 02:42 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] charlottehywd.livejournal.com
Some feminist JRK is. I really wish that her fans would stop giving her credit for a liberalness she really never has shown in her books.

JKR's word

Date: 2011-12-05 10:42 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] urbanman1984.livejournal.com
JKR confirmed in an interview that actually Dumblesnore had guessed right in this instance. But JKR's individual interviews have contradicted each other on details about the series before. I wonder if she sticks to that? In that interview she was actually overturning the trope "female on male abuse is acceptable," which had seemed to manifest in the series a number of times. So potentially all those in the series who use love potions are as bad as Merope in the author's view? But expecting consistency from JKR is futile.

Re: JKR's word

Date: 2011-12-05 10:51 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] granatapfelrot.livejournal.com
Now, I'm confused. Was what Romilda did all right, because she was a Gryffindor, or not, because she had a strong chin??
Could go either way with JKR...

Re: JKR's word

Date: 2011-12-06 03:12 am (UTC)
sunnyskywalker: Young Beru Lars from Attack of the Clones; text "Sunnyskywalker" (spandex jackets)
From: [personal profile] sunnyskywalker
Romilda was mildly wrong because she wasn't deserving of the Chosen One, but it could still be a funny joke on Ron. Molly's love potion was harmless and an entertaining anecdote because she is a good Gryffindor and was nice to poor little Harry.

At least, I can't see how else to take that, from an in-story perspective. From a Doylist perspective, probably JKR hadn't thought about it at all in GoF when she threw it in as a joke, and changed her mind by HBP. At least under some circumstances?

Re: JKR's word

Date: 2011-12-06 05:32 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] oneandthetruth.livejournal.com
Those circumstances being that (1) Merope would have been in Slytherin if she'd gone to Hogwarts, so everything she did was automatically bad and wrong; (2) her love potion led to the conception of Voldemort, who was both an evil terrorist and the heir of Slytherin. OTOH, if Lily had used a love potion on James, or vice versa, to get her away from that sleazy Slytherin, that would have been OK, particularly if it led to the conception of Harry.

Re: JKR's word

Date: 2011-12-06 08:55 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] granatapfelrot.livejournal.com
Ah. Thanks for breaking that down for me.
Didn't JKR say something about how Romilda and Cormac were examples for bad Gryffindors? I guess they're still only mildly bad, being Gryffindor and all.
Pettigrew? Who cares about Peter? He was too pathetic to even be properly hated. Pettigrew was clearly sorted too soon.

Re: JKR's word

Date: 2011-12-07 02:45 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] charlottehywd.livejournal.com
Well, to be fair, this is also a world where mind-raping people is totally fine, if encouraged. Forcing someone to love you is just a specialized version of that.

Re: JKR's word

Date: 2011-12-07 02:44 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] charlottehywd.livejournal.com
In that interview she was actually overturning the trope "female on male abuse is acceptable," which had seemed to manifest in the series a number of times.

So, it's only OK if her author avatar (Hermione) does it? Or Ginny the super speshul. Wow, you can tell who the favored characters are here.

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